I have been sitting here at the family table with my best girlfriend, Elaine, crying and laughing at the same instance. In fact each of us are so darn giddy, it’s hilarious. As we start laughing really, hard, I almost peed on myself. Oh gawd! I’ve started giggling once again. Hold for a second, I must cease laughing after which I’ll tell you about this.
Now let me reveal to you why I am so giddy. Around half a year ago my boyfriend broke up with me. Understandably, I was completely devastated. I was thinking I was having a heart attack; it hurt so bad. I got so messed up. All I did was weep hr after hr. I couldn’t think, much less try to go to work. You no doubt know exactly what I’m stating right?
Almost 3 days into the worst event of my life, a thought hit me. It had been virtually like a white hot electrical shock coming from a large lightning bolt coming out of the heavens and impacting me. I definitely, really love this man and I wish to devote the remainder of my life with him. And the first problem that popped into my mind was, “How can I get him back?”
I had by now tried to text and call him, however he plain ignored me. After that I went over to his property and practically got on my knees begging him to take me back. Pete was especially gentle, when he spelled out just what was occuring with him and then he requested me to go away and that’s when I blew my top. I simply lost it, but I did go.
After getting back home I called Elaine, bawling my eyes out once again and she rushed over to comfort me and give some all-important advice.
Elaine had experienced a similar thing with her boyfriend in the last year, so she understood what she was referring to. As we talked she explained how she had done similar factors I had and so they didn’t work for her either. “O.K.! In that case exactly how did you get Ben back?” I questioned.
“Pay attention,” she stated. “Andrea, the vital thing you are required to do is finish behaving like a fool. You’re going to need to take your time and find out what triggered Pete to split up with you. Once we have that figured out we are able to design a battle plan to get him back.” And believe me that‘s just what we did.
Elaine broke out her copy of the Magic of Making Up and set about to record the items she had utilized and I would needed to do to gain my ex back:
* Get started looking my best, at all times not part of the time
* Determine why Pete and I had fallen in love the first time
* Begin carrying out the things that had pulled in Pete to me at first
* Stop text messaging, stop calling, stop going to his apartment
To make most of the tale quick I followed our battle plan and last night Pete asked me to marry him. Oh Gawd! The ring is wonderful. Now you recognize why I’m so giddy I could cry.
But I must say without Elaine and her guidelines from the Magic of Making up I’d have lost Pete forever.
