Today I will reveal some secret hints that will give you the confidence to approach any girl at any time.
I’m unsure whic group you are in but most guys are either:
Too nervous to ever attempt to pick up a girl unless they are completely drunk
Too arrogant and continuously try to pick up women only to be rejected again and again
However there are a select group of annoying men, many times not the most handsome looking guys, who always seduce women with amazing success. Have you ever thought – how did he get her?
These normal looking guys, usually with fantastic looking women simply know the strategies that are succesful with women and they use them.
The first rule of seducing women is obvious, you must talk to them! Many guys protest they always go home alone, but the problem is they did not approach even one girl the entire night.
To be successful with women you have to approach them, if you are a little nervous about it employ the fifteen second trick. If you see a girl you you think is attractive you must approach her within fifteen seconds of seeing her. This does not allow you any time to get nervous and is a fantastic way to get used to approaching women.
Many men do not pick up women because they cannot think of anything to say.
This should not stop you speaking to women as there are lots of solutions to this issue. Despite what you might believe women do respond to good pick up lines, as long as you say them in a playful way and you do not take yourself too seriously. If you have never used any pick up lines previously it would be best playing safe and giving a cute pick up lines.
If you do not feel at ease using a pick up line do not use one, it will back fire on you.
If you do not know how to open a conversation use a compliment to break the ice. You can do this in a laid-back and none intimidating way. If you do choose to give her a compliment try to make it specific rather than just telling her she is hot. Tell her you noticed her hair,smile or eyes but whatever you do, do not praise her in a sexualized way.
If you praise her on something else other than her looks it will guarantee you stand out. Choose something else and tell her how fantastic it is, this might be her laugh, dancing or even her dress. The more specific you are the more genuine you will seem.
If you are too reserved to give compliments about a girl you can use an incident or another person as a way to spark a conversation. If there is a dispute in a bar, or someone is acting the fool, you can use these situations as a way to start a conversation.
Whichever technique you employ to pick up the girl make sure that all of it is none threatening and friendly. Make sure you smile plenty and that your attention is focused always on her at all times.
If you follow these straightforward hints you will have no problem in approaching women.
