The bride stands to the left, something old, new, borrowed, blue, and on and on and on . Ever wondered why we do the things we do at our weddings? Well, this article will answer all of your questions, and perhaps even make you decide to eliminate some of them. Read on for that information as well as how to get awesome 99 cent wedding favors!
Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue – Something old represents a tie to the past of the bride and that she should never forget her roots. Something new is for happiness and success in the bride’s new life. Something borrowed is to make sure that she always remembers that she has family and friends in case a need in the marriage should arise. Something blue is to wish the bride wealth and prosperity. Sometimes I wonder why that wasn’t green! And I wonder why people don’t get their wedding favors early?
The Bridal Veil – This dates back (and still some today) when there were only arranged marriages. The groom had no idea who his betrothed would be and when the veil was lifted, that’s when he found out. Surprise! And don’t be surprised by not being able to find the perfect edible wedding favors because you waited to long to get them!
Third Finger, Left Hand – This dates back to Ancient Egypt. The reason for this finger is because that is where the vein, vena amoris, the vein of love, which goes from that finger to your heart.
The Bride On The Left – This dates back to when the groom would have to kidnap his bride. He would throw her over his left shoulder so that he could fight off his suitors with his right hand holding a sword.
The Best Man – He was the ‘best man’ who could help the groom fight off other potential suitors.
The Wedding Garter/Bridal Bouquet – This originated in France, when any piece of the bridal outfit was considered very lucky. So as to not have the bride’s gown and veil torn to pieces, tradition added a garter, worn on the left leg just above the knee and is thrown by the groom. Whoever catches it is supposed to be the next lucky man to get married, same as throwing of the flowers by the bride.
Throwing Rice After The Ceremony – This dates back to a pagan rite which indicates that people wish the happy couple a very ‘fruitful’ union. Some of you who prefer to remain childless or only have one child may want to eliminate this from your wedding!
Now you know why you do what you do. Most of these traditions have become such a part of our culture that eliminating them would be difficult. But remember, it’s your wedding. Follow them or not, it will not affect the joy of the day.
